A natural pamperer, I absolutely love giving, in many ways. Am turned on by intelligent sensual opinionated women (apparently a sapiophile) and if you happen to be submissive all the better but not essential as happy to switch dependent on your sexuality. I love seducing the mind of a lady who wants to use or rediscover her sexuality and wants to experience & explore more, maybe push her boundaries in a safe environment. There is nothing sexier than helping a lady blossom either because she is younger & wants to learn or older after what may have been years of inactivity or inattention. Every woman deserves to feel special wanted and sexy and be free to express herself however she wants. What the majority of men do not realise is that the major difference between men and women is that for the majority of men the sexual act is 90% physical and 10% mental, but for women it's the complete opposite 90% mental, 10% physical for if it does not feel right in her mind, you can forget it. Let me ensure your mind is where it should be.

My Ideal Person A Lady who would like to be allowed to have a say in how the relationship evolves, be it laughs, smiles, conversation or being spoilt in bed in what she feels is a special and safe environment..

Anyone can be rude lewd or crude but I would like to think you would prefer to be seduced by suggestiveness, stimulation, sensual, and thought provoking language.

Since the lockdown must admit I found I have a penchant for phone sex and camming, but again if that's not for you, I will listen and adapt.

Above all, you will be treated with politeness, be respected and treated how you would treat another.