I'm your average middle age man salt and pepper hair, looking for mainly weekday daytime fun mainly, but evening and weekends also as time allows with a lady or couple. The fun could be just going for coffee or it could be a hot 4 hour sex filled afternoon in a motel eating cheese and cracker drinking wine. We can make it up as we go. Just looking for some fun. Getting to know other people with the same mind set and outlook on life as we have. For years we was told by friends we walked to a different drummer until the internet came along and we found the swinging lifestyle wasn't as uncommon as we had been told and grown to believe. There are people out there that think as we do, and acceptance of the way we live our lives and do not judge as we try so hard not to do also. Everyone has an option and what maybe right for one per, someone else may not like. but hey we all live on the same planet that is why they build Chevy's and Ford's, why some people live in a pink house and other 's house maybe white. Yes my profile says I'm married and yes I am still married to my High School Sweetheart my life Partner, Yes she knows I'm on this site and is OK with it. So why am I on here as a single Male ask me if it matters and I'll tell you. WARNING: To any institutions using this site, or any of its associated sites, for studies or projects: you do NOT have my permission to use ANY of my profile information (including and/or photographs, videos) in any form, or forum, both currently and/or in the future. If you have already d so, or intend to do so, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy, and the violation will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person Easy going does not like drama or making a scene. Laid back thinks before they speak so as not to hurt anyone feeling but still tells you what's on their mind. High sex drive, likes to be adventurous and explore new things and revisit old times, maybe not relive old times but smile when you remember some. Go with the flow kind of person not a " It's my way or the H'way " type. Thinks in the real world not just a fantasy world, be understanding that we all have a life and things happen. Kids, Family, or for the ones still working that thing called work/job sometime gets in the way of our plans.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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