Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. The philosophy I live by is "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with." I like to have friends who I can get physical with. When I go out, I go with the flow, and end up where I end up. For me a perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us. When I'm at home alone, I'm planning my next big trip abroad. I'm not changing my life, because things are great the way they are. I look forward to seeing where this leads us. If you contact me bear in mind that I'm just looking for a fuck buddy, not a soulmate.